Words from my friend Sylvia Jackson,  so true, something I need to be better at: 

You are called to be salt and light, to be different in the best way, to take the high road. "Bless those that curse you, do good to those that hate you, pray for those that despitefully use and persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven." For He loves the righteous and unrighteousness both. Jesus willingly laid down His life for those who hated Him and calls us to love with the same kind of love. Impossible without Him doing it through you. Lord give us this bubble of grace.